Loved the link, Mish. I know you don't want him right now, but I would be glad if your H realized what a treasure he had given up when he walked away from you....
They say all of these guys (and gals) will SOMEDAY realize just what a major mistake they made, even if they never admit it to anyone. Maybe in your case it will be sooner than later. Even if you don't want him back I would think it would be nice if he eventually acknowledged that.