Thank you both for your feedback.

I went to the L today and sent a response to H's filing. I was hoping I could just sign his and it be over but long story short I found out he was trying to screw me over...so I had no choice but to hire my L.

He has no idea that I did this-not only that he is going to be served next week with a restraining order (which isnt the one you are thinking of, its to stop him from selling his car and stashing the money away)

So he is about to get really upset with me, but I am not going to be one of thoese woman that just gives up and gives the guy whatever he wants just because I am emotionally drained. I didnt want this divorce, I still dont, but he has been bugging me and I didnt want to default and loose all my rights.

Our first hearing is at the end of the month. \:\( \:\(
Which means if he agrees to everything we will be D in a few weeks instead of another 2 months like I was thinking