Me and my wife are married, better than ever before. I am glad for having gone through this hell but I'll only go through it once. I will also say that I would have been glad even if me and my wife were not still married.
I am still DBing, because it is a way of life. Learning to talk and communicate not take each other for granted and speaking up for yourself in good ways. So I will always be DBing...
I'm here because I'm addicted to this place and trying to help people. : ) Seriously I can help people here, and I feel indebted to DB for the lessons I have learned.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK