I know this is SMW's thread, but SC, I thought you 'got' where I was coming from. In my case I am offering him the life preserver, but for me it will most likely be for the last time. I want to help lift him up, not go under with him. If he refuses help and continues to flounder, so be it!
BBJ (sorry for hijacking, but BBJ doesn't have a thread right now)
I totally get where you are coming from... in fact I think I posted to you about it first on your thread. My comment to Mike was about a general observation (really didn't even think about you at all). We all get frustrated and such and it goes in circles or seasons. I am totally for you confronting Dan on this issue and offering a life perserver... because honestly if you don't, no one else will. I think you have great courage taking this on and it shows real love .... what he does with it is up to him.
Maybe it's the kick in the pants that he needs and it is a 180 from anything you have ever done.
Blessings,
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
