Going back to the house stitch...your mom may just have to suck it up and give up her own room. That's just reality. In about 80% of the world, you can't expect to have your own room, we're just spoiled here.
Strange developments with your XH.
Hang in there sweetie.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2