I dealt with the things XH asked me to do and informed him accordingly. I also wrote that something happened and I regret not doing what I intended to do. I told him that I don't want that to happen to us. He then asked what happened and that I should give him some time, maybe we can be friends one day. But for now he is too bitter about the way I treated him. He feels that way because of the money I will get and therefore, he cannot afford to buy a car. (He had to mention that again!)
In a further mail he wrote that he thanks me for everything I did recently. However, his biggest regret was to invite me to his place. He thought he could trust me but obviously, it was not the case! – He has not stopped saying these things. I guess he still thinks I would give in and let him have the money. – I am very sad about it.
Regarding my neighbour he got mad at me when I told him that I consulted a lawyer, because he thought we could agree on something on an amicable basis. I told him that I had to find out somehow what my rights were. I also told him that I felt he was not honest with me and now that the shrubs have gone he sees all kinds of things he doesn't like. I told him that it was like this for over 25 years and just because HE changed everything it is not my fault that he doesn't like it.
The next day he phoned me and said that he was not able to sleep. I told him I could have given him some of my tranquilizers which I had to take – LOL! At least he has come down with his demands a bit because he also contacted a free legal service who told him that none of the parties would get what they wanted if we went to court. So I am thinking about his suggestions, but it all makes me very nervous.
I thought he must be in MLC or ELC (End Life Crisis) because up till now he was OK and all of a sudden he is going crazy.
Today I got a surprise. The interesting guy whom I met about a month ago and who lives at the other end of the country mailed me. To start with I couldn't remember who the guy was, but then it suddenly clicked. He is coming to my area and would like to see me. I wonder what it will be like. Somehow I had the suspicion last time that he only wanted cheap accommodation thinking he could stay with me.
