Ok, So I'm reading these e-newsletters I get about dating from this one ...hhmmm.. ebook author. Anyway this newsletter is talking about honesty & lying. It says men lie because they hate the emotional reactions from women. Women need to have an "Anything is OK" attitude. Not to mean anything is ok to do, but that anything is ok to tell me & I won't freak out. Interesting. It also says to get a man to be honest (usually men are most honest on the 1st or 2nd dates) - but to get them to be honest use these 3 words: I'm Just Curious. (Examples: What kind of relationship are you looking for, I'm just curious? Are you seeing anyone else, I'm just curious? What kind of women do you admire, I'm just curious?).

Any thoughts anyone, I'm just curious?? \:\)


Me39, XH45
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Divorced 6/4/09
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