Setting Boundaries for MLC Alien H

[Jack_Three_Beans]

The LBS needs to have the respect of the spouse...but that doesn't happen for a while in MLC.

I believe that the techinques of DBing work in MLC...it just takes longer and is a bit different. Alot in some cases. That respect comes down the road, in piecing. Besides you can never demend that someone respect you...ok you can, but you'd be a fool to expect anyone to respect you just because they told you so...kind of like "trust me". : )

some issues on the laudry list must be taken care of later.
IF for example you never initate sex...and you guys aren't sleeping together, and he has made it clear he doesn't want too...he doesn't mean initiate sex with someone else.

You could try watching TV together but it might be an example of too litle too late in his head. We LBS tend to go overboard to make the MLCer happy and they see it for the trick it is...and it is.

Make changes for yourself, make good positive changes you want in you that might reflect the laundry list...or might not. You have time to kill...sorry to say a lot of time to kill use it to your advantage. The LBSers who figure that out quickly are the ones who do better mentally...ask anyone else in here. : )