It does sound like it was a hard day there for you mnt. I feel for you. But like you reminded me look back at what you said the goals for the meeting were. It sounds like you accomplished them and did well keeping strong while H was there.

I understand how its easy to slip and get focused on H. I found that post you mentioned really helped me regain my perspective and begin to refocus on me again rather than what I can't control.

Tomorrow is another day you are so right, I think this all the time as well as 'one day at a time' when I get overwhelmed.

Good for you on the tennis. Have you ever played before? That is something I always thought about doing but my coordination never agreed too well with the idea.


Me-27
H-28
M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs
No kids
B 1/09
S 2/09

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