Hey 62906 - I'm with Puppy - be very careful here. She was filling a need with the EA. In her mind something is missing from her life and your M. If she is getting something out of the EA that she is not getting at home it's only a matter of time until she wants to feel physically connected to someone. EAs can go on for a while before they turn to PA. And they don't necessarily have to be with the same person.
Look in the mirror. What is she missing at home that she could be getting from the EA?? We need more info about your history and communication with your W.
The check out with the kids scares the he!! out of me. See my sitch for clarity. Once they decide it is all about them and put themselves in front of the kids...well let's just say that is not a good sign. Doesn't matter whether it's MLC, depression or whatever...she is seeking something outside the family.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
