Didn't sit down last night to discuss my expectations. W said last night, with a smile "I don't want you to get too horned up, but if the doctor clears me Thursday, we should be able to do something Thursday night." This threw me for a loop because my initial reaction was to scream "NOT TOO HORNED UP!!! WE HAVEN"T DONE ANYTHING FOR 7 WEEKS AND YOU DON'T WANT ME TOO HORNED UP!!! TOO LATE!!!" Fortunately, I just said ok and knew that she probably meant well and saying anything else might ruin it. I still plan to talk to her tonight but am not yet sure how to bring it up or what I am going to say.
CB
Me; 42, W; 43 M; 16 yrs S12, D9
3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure" 5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"