Maybe others might have different advice, but I say take the road trip with here. Be a friend with this one. She is moving from OM, help her do it. Her being so far away too might be a good thing for her to feel the loss of your M being where it is.
Hang in there. We know our spouses are not perfect and they never will be. And I do still say take it slow. Look after you for now until she gives a little encouragement. My 2cents.
