Not sure. I was depressed and apparently my H was convinced I was having an affair. But, I've never had any history like that so, not sure. In my marriage, I felt that everything else came before me and that we were not handling essentials (finances, organization, communication etc). I really gave up in many ways and had zero interest in sex. Now that he's gone, I miss him, love him and wish we had both been more awake.
