First to clear up something. I wanted to keep the jobs I had but we had to move, she's an MD and we moved for her school, residency and finally her job. So my career would just keep starting over it's not that I don't want to provide I just couldn't. Now I've got a great job will probably be making so she could work part-time(which is what she wants) within the year and I love my job, it's just that I've finally got to a point that I was able to put down roots for a job.
As for the Nintendo there was no cold from her or me, it was GREAT. We were joking around giving each other a hard time(in a fun way) the way we used to. It was the next night when I wasn't there she was cold.
Nope no drugs ever again clean over two years with the help of God and NA...
I'm just not sure where the line is between pursuing and being a strong man and just doing something because I know she needs it is.
Oh one more thing...I was talking to a friend about the whole game thing and based on what I told him he said her body language was totally into me. When she first got home the first thing she did was put a sweater on said she was cold...But after she came upstairs to play with us she took it off was laying on the bed just being very open, no crossed arm or legs, ect. Which also goes back to DB I didn't want to leave and it didn't SEEM like she wanted me too but I didn't want to push it...Remember three days earlier she said we have zero chance.
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Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
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