Mindblank #4 - Can I borrow some meds?

[mindfull]

Ok, so I will ask for how to "act," and what to "do" when we're so entwined with home, kids, activities, life, etc...

Home is together.
All finances are together.
Careers separate.
3 children being raised together. Both of us highly involved.
H works out of town during the week (for the most part).
I work at home and take care of the kids solo during the week (for the most part).
We are together, almost non-stop, when H is in town.


Status as of today. We spoke 1x this am re: status of weeks activities, financial stuff, etc... Seemed ok, but sounds like he doesn't feel well (ill). I sent him a txt later, after thinking about all of this and just said

I apologize for the txt's and call last night. I to fight the urge to pressure you. I hope you can understand. Hope you feel better and drive safe.

I've now dropped it. Don't worry. He knows I have dropped it.

So, how to move forward?