WDID, I think you are right too. Sadly enough same thing with us even getting married. We had a great R and H just won't do it. One time let's do it another next year. It wasn't until I was totally sick and tired that he got married. He even tried to get out of it when plans were made but I was going to be through if we didn't - we were already together 9 years. And now this bullcrap that he's pulling. I swear sometimes I think H is the luckiest man to even have me still wanting the M that he has not earned. Seems like its time for him to earn it.
I have looked into filing the D but because of all of our assets, it would be way too expensive. I just don't have the cash to spend on something that I'm not even ready for. But I know for sure H has earned a divorce. So I'm just trying to divorce him emotionally for now.
