Hi MB. I read somewhere that most people don't really trust their counselors until the 5th time. You have to give it several sessions before you really start to trust and open up to the counselor. You have to find the right one as well.

I strongly believe it will help you. I believe Mike is right - detach now and have a chance or detach later when the chance is gone. You have shown signs of detachment. You've done it well for brief periods. Now detach and go to MC. Tell yourself you will only detach until you've gone 6 times to MC and then will re-evaluate.

Come on MB, nothing else has worked so far, right?

AJ


"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK
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"Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world
Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."