You are still going to let her make the decision? Reread Gucci and others, right when I think you are doing well, you say something like this...
Ok, that just clicked for me. I got it now. IT'S NOT HER DECISION, IT'S MINE!
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M-41 ex-W-40 Together--17 years SS-20 D-14 Bomb--2 Feb 09 WAW--6 Feb 09 Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!! ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!! Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!