Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
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You are throwing the ring to Dan again, as I am for DH.


I'll caution both of you...be careful of throwing the life rings, they may just drag you down with them..
God has the rope, Mike. He will not allow DH to pull me down.

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if I were you two..I'd throw em the anchors...but what do I know I'd let them either sink or swim.. ;\)

They are already sinking. Loving unconditionally means that I have to keep trying.

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you two know the drill and now is the time to "not start over"

so stay centered...emotionally...let them flounder
I am never going back to where I was. I didn't like me then and I have learned to love me now--with or without my DH.

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and another thing..this board is cycling again...lots of weird things happening and as you know the posters here tend to "try" things when this board cycles and sometimes cause their sitches to go backwards because of it..


Other than the long overdue talk I had with DH last week, I have not tried anything new. I did not ask DH to go to D9's counseling. It was his idea and she wants him there. What is going to happen? I don't know.

Living God's blessings with grace and dignity~
SMW


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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through
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I Corinthians 13:7