I know this is SMW's thread, but SC, I thought you 'got' where I was coming from. In my case I am offering him the life preserver, but for me it will most likely be for the last time. I want to help lift him up, not go under with him. If he refuses help and continues to flounder, so be it!
BBJ..Im not cracking on you or SMW..I'm just saying use caution..I care about you both and don't want to see either one of you back in a bad spot emotionally..
ya gotta do what ya gotta do..
you two are not going to save them..they have tio have a want to save themselves..all you have to do is be open to love them unconditionally if they choose to return...
