Sam... you make some very good points. He doesn't fit neatly into the MLC box, but projects a lot of the attitude/actions. The disconnection from friends and family is part of that, huh?

I really would like to confide in someone, but it will take some courage to do so. I couldn't even really speak to the marriage counselor. I just sat and cried. It got me nowhere, and I thought the guy was a total creep.

Your idea of being able to detach after there's been a good time with him is a thought. Probably plays into my confidence in us... Hit and run... That may be a great way to start to detach from this.

I'll work on those 20 interactions to make up for this. Luckily, they're not coming that frequently.


Me-46, D-21, S15, S13

After many years w/my head in the sand...
I FILED
Divorced 6/2011

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.