I think that when one person on here trys something and others read what they tried then we all automatically fall inot the trap of trying something....

hell Mish watch the board..when one sitch goes South..they all go south..Brain and I have talked about this many times...it's human nature I think..we think

hey, it looks like old Mike is having some success..i wonder if I try this or that if it might help my sitch...it ebbs and flows


the ones here who succeed truly detach and "let them go"..there have only been a couple I have seen or posted to personally..one is Gforce and another who reconciled but no longer posts...I talked to her in the alternate..she was a good friend to our group...she has had success....let's just say that sometimes even the worst locks can be removed from some boxes.. ;\)

Mish..I'm saying...if ya let em go they may come back..if you don't they won't..want me to use your words against you?? LOL