As for the loser man she chose to have the affair with. That's common. The OM I chose wasn't even CLOSE to the man I married. I'm a well educated, religious lady that was brought up well. I picked a OM with no job, divorced, immoral, involved in the court system, did drugs, and had anger management issues. My mind was not used.....all I thought about was how he made me feel..like I was the most beautiful, wonderful, caring, cherished woman on the earth...that we were soulmates....that I would be sooo good for him, and he would love me just like I needed to be love. Makes me wanna be sick now, but that is what I thought then.
