Quote: Do you think that your spouse perceives you to be complimentary or critical?
What things have you said and done that may have seemed to your partner that you are more often inclined to point out to them the things that you don't like about what they're doing?
What are some of the things you may have said or done that might make them feel that, no matter what they do or say, it's not good enough?
Do you ever take a "time-out" to point out some of the things that you DO like about what they've done in the past, or have been doing lately?
When are the times that you have received a positive response from reinforcing behaviours that bring you closer to what you want from your relationship?
When was the last time you paid a compliment to your spouse?
JJ
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