Really good time hopeful. I think I have whipped right through detachment. Might be aided by the anti-depressants I am taking. I have accepted the fact that I can't change my wife. She's dating this guy, and I can't change that. So I put together a profile for Match.com and I'm going to put myself on the market. Maybe not true db'ing, but it feels right to me. I'm still convinced my wife and I will reconcile, but for right now I'm just going to be a good dad and have some fun.