I'd like to know this also my W told me almost the same thing. She is also the main bread winner and we moved all the time for her career then one day she springs on me when are you going to get a real job I didn't want to work full time my whole life...Of course every time my career was moving forward we had to move for her...
Volleydog, You posted this on SP's thread and I wanted to answer here (make SP think about it.) She expected you to be the main bread-winner. She wants you to be the main bread-winner. She will never come out and say this so don't expect it. It's one of the ways women feel loved and cared for. Read "His Needs/Her Needs" and the "Five Love Languages." It's also primal that it is our roles as men. Don't say anything just step up here and I promise you will see some changes in your W. You can handle it. Cheers Coach
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
