You are throwing the ring to Dan again, as I am for DH.
I'll caution both of you...be careful of throwing the life rings, they may just drag you down with them..
if I were you two..I'd throw em the anchors...but what do I know I'd let them either sink or swim..
you two know the drill and now is the time to "not start over"
so stay centered...emotionally...let them flounder
and another thing..this board is cycling again...lots of weird things happening and as you know the posters here tend to "try" things when this board cycles and sometimes cause their sitches to go backwards because of it..