Originally Posted By: Thinker

The only problem is that I am not very good at understated sensuality. I have to learn, and am open to ANY suggestions.


I am also not used to being directly and openly aggressive sexually (Call it "Nice Guy", repressed, or whatever you want). I have recently realized that this probably bored and frustrated my W (and me...) but it also makes it doubly difficult for me to be openly aggressive now when the underlying comfort and security is not there.

just too much Thinking... \:\)


Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2
M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08
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