The only problem is that I am not very good at understated sensuality. I have to learn, and am open to ANY suggestions.
I am also not used to being directly and openly aggressive sexually (Call it "Nice Guy", repressed, or whatever you want). I have recently realized that this probably bored and frustrated my W (and me...) but it also makes it doubly difficult for me to be openly aggressive now when the underlying comfort and security is not there.
just too much Thinking...
Me 42, W 39, S8, S6, S2 M 11y, A & ILYBNILWY 11/08 Walking away from a bad situation.