Thanks for the supportive comments. Your right I need to give him space and not have any R talk, I will work on sticking to this.
I started trying the LRT about a month after H moved out(when I first found DR) and had followed that pretty close for about 2 months. The 1st 4 weeks I saw some results but then they stopped eventho I kept following for the next month.
In that second month it seems as I distanced myself and gave space H used this time to build his R with a 'friend' of ours that he works with, who he is now considering having a relationship with. I feel like I did the whole not contacting and no R talk, etc and all it did was push him towards OW. This frustrates me so much bc I felt like I was doing good at the DR & LRT stuff, and now it makes me think maybe it was the wrong technique to use since it went all wrong!
I feel like right now it may be the only chance I have left to keep trying. But with OW in picture I feel like it only makes it easier for him to conduct an affair?
Me-27 H-28 M-2.5 yrs T-8.5 yrs No kids B 1/09 S 2/09
