Step Number 5 - Experiment and Monitor Results

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DBing actions:

I don't contact H at all. I don't bring up anything to do with the R when he comes around. I bite my tongue so much it's a wonder I still have one.

Results:

H initiates contact. We are still intimate on occasion. He kisses me. He doesn't bring up the big D.

It's still early so I am trying to detach and moniter his reactions.