Help a chick out! Other than losing weight (doing down 42 lbs so far), making myself look gorgeous daily (doing), working out (doing), doing stuff with the kids (doing), what should I be doing?
What are you doing to grow? What issues do you need to work on? Are you repeating patterns in your life that are unproductive/unhealthy? Sounds like you expected him to leave you. Focus on yourself, take care of your needs and the kids. This isn't all up to you whether it works out so be prepared. I think men want the same thing as women in their M. We just communicate it and show it differently. No expectations and be loving anyway. You need boundaries in place and a plan in case things start moving along. You can handle it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
