I too got the one about 100 sex games - and deleted it immediately as he recommended if not in a sexual relationship <sigh>
I have seen the reaping and sowing one before, and it is taken from his book, good points about patience and not ripping up a plant to check the roots.
However, I have a bitter taste in my mouth from his program, because I followed it from Sept 08 to Jan 09, and it really set me back. A lot of his emphasis is on continual subtle pursuit, and in sitches where both sides are willing to work on the M, it's probably a good approach, but when one side has checked out, it just backfires in a big way. He does mention "knowing what time it is", and unfortunately it took me 4 months to determine it was time to try something else, and then I found Michele's books and this site.
Am I any closer to reconciliation? No Am I further away from reconciliation? Perhaps Has W taken any action towards D? No Has my resolve to keep my family diminished? No
But here's what I think is the big one.
Have I given W what she has asked for, i.e. space and time? YES MF's advice was to ignore that request and continue the subtle pursuit.
Time will tell, but I can say that I feel like I'm in a better place than I was in January when I started DB'ing, so it is having an effect on me, even if not on my M.
