Hey Julia, Your travel plans sound wonderful!! I always heard New Zealand was beautiful.

Moving does sound like it will be good for you as well. For me it became easier to contact my H - when i stopped fighting him. If he rejected my invite, no big deal. My fear of rejection lessened, while my confidence increased. Make any sense??? Sounds strange - I know - but so is my sitch - right??


Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)