Yes, Learned Optimism was great.

So are:

1) The Happiness Hypothesis by Jonathan Haidt
2) The Art of Happiness - Dalai Lama
3) Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'