volley - that is how I feel...like addressing him directly. But, I know him...he'll start calling me names and all kinds of stuff. That money should be going to our daughter and our bills that he stuck me with. But, he is 1) selfish and 2) she is cracking the whip around there...guaranteed. So, not sure how to go about doing this. I'm trying to figure out the best way to do it without treating him disrespectfully. I would love it if he would just do the right thing. I don't need all that money right now, but a nice little chunk of it could take care of my car payment, formula and diapers for K and some daycare costs. If I can just get on my feet again...I would feel so much better. I am so stressed out about the money that I wake up all night long. I wake up totally tense, I can barely move, my back is stiff, my shoulder hurts, I worry. He has caused a lot of problems for me. He could fix some of that right now.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him