First I have to say you are one amazingly strong woman. Second it's your money he owes it you for you D, I'd ask him and if he says no I'd say flat our you know he got it and he needs to make up for the back support. That money DOES NOT need to go to OW and her K.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
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