Very predictable Pup. Even when we were together. Once I took control of the situation and backed off or did my own thing H would come crawling back or come around to doing what's needed.
I believe that in life we encounter situations that teaches lessons. Sometimes I think my sitch and the repeat of H leaving again is because I haven't learn the lesson that required of me (H too). I need to take control of my life, of my marriage and this situation, stand up for myself, and to set boundaries and standards. I think the longer it takes me to do this is the longer my sitch will go on.
Update: I decided to text H this morning back. I didn't want it to seem like I am mad or anything. I just wanted to be casual. So the exchange was:
Me: Hi H, I am alive and well. I've been a bit busy & couldn't answer ur calls. Pl text me back if important. Hope all is well. H: Whatever just 4gotten enjoy. (I think he was referring to that he's forgotten). H: I am going to stop answering your text and your calls. stay busy ok.
I can't be bothered and I refuse to argue with him so I won't even bother answering. He is not giving me anything to hold on to with us so let it be. I did my cordial part and responded to him.
