Honestly, I don't know what I'm going to do at the moment. I'm still flaming ticked, angry, and hurt. So I don't want to make a snap decision in that frame of mind.
On the first day I found out about the om, the no-contact/transparency agreement was relatively simple. No contact, and no communication. She ends it with him ASAP and that's it. No "good mornings", "hi how are you"...nothing. I'm not sure I could be more specific than that, at least at the time of the conversation. As of yesterday, I did tell the om via e-mail the same thing. That it's over, and I expect no contact with my wife. She is also aware that I have full access to her e-mail. She agreed to what I said I needed to move forward.
