So I'm on day 4 of not speaking to or hearing from the W. Its killing me not hearing S3 voice on the phone. I've been good about giving her space until yesterday evening. After work I had to go to her job to do a computer repair - lucky for me by the time I got there she left. I fixed the owners laptop, and while talking to him about little things, I wrote her a note and left it on her desk. The note simply stated Hi and have a wonderful day \:\)

The owner saw the whole thing(he is well aware of everything between the W and I) and as I was leaving to put the note on her desk, he asked me if her door was open. It was, but i had said to him I had only planned on sliding it under the door. Since the door was open and he was with me, I simply placed it on her desk.

I have no idea how she reacted - if she even acknowledged or recieved the note. But hopefully it brightened up her day and put a smile on her face. Now for me to go back to taking care of myself and try my best not to contact the W.


Me 35
W 30
S 3
M 7 : T 13 yrs
Separated 2/20/09
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