Well, it's not as over as I thought. They are still parking together at the end of the parking lot at school when they drop the kids off, away from everyone and other cars.
They walked out together shoulder to shoulder this morning, back to their cars clearly talking the whole time, stood behind the cars, and had a close conversation for about 5 minutes. Then each got in their cars and left.
I called my w on it, and she said they were just exchanging pleasantries, and that it was innocent.
I don't know...I don't care how innocent it was, no communication and no contact means no communication and no contact. There should be nothing for them to talk about as far as I'm concerned.
In the over two weeks of all of this, I feel there has been 0 proof and 0 done, other than a few words and no actions, to show me this is over and that she is ready to start working on this with me.
I also found out a little more about him. Low income, has had to appear in court 9 times since 2002. Mostly over not paying people for services, and getting sued for it. Two of the cases made it as far as garnishment of wages. Don't know for sure, but I don't believe he is currently employed.