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[mishka422]

Mish, don't even go there. If he does, on an outside crazy chance, suggest reconciliation, tell him that he has to focus on one thing at a time, and right now, that is straightening himself out, becoming a whole person, without trying to have you do the work that only he can do himself.
You never have to answer the question directly. And when/if he gets to a stronger place, he will be ok hearing the answer.

Good way to put it Donna! Thanks.

He actually just cancelled for lunch so hopefully he has thought more about what he was intimating last night and thought better of it. Off the hook there at least!