MB. Just because your H won't go, doesn't mean you should not. In fact, I think you should go to a MC as soon as possible. Even if it is alone.
Don't believe what he said. He told you he did not want to talk about it when he was tired. Ok. Believe him. It is not what you want, but it is where he's at.
You cannot make him go. I can't make my W do anything either. No matter what though, we have to do what's right for us. That's part of what this journey is about, no?
Go to the MC alone if you have to. Don't wait. Ask your friends to recommend a good one and you'll be glad you went even if the MC sends you to IC. Keep looking until you find a good one.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."