It's funny... the further into this "process of ILYBNILWY" we get, the more he withdraws from anyone he was really a friend of. Odd. He's everyone's "favorite," fun, silly, joking a lot... I'm the only one close to him right now (that I know of...). Don't get me wrong, he's friendly, just not close to anyone.
I'm going to try my best to just back off. We have some key events in our lives coming up within the next month (D17 on prom court this weekend, with the kids at our house for post prom, S12 6th grade graduation/bon fire at our house, D17 high school graduation, D17 graduation party, finalizing D17 college stuff, etc...) and I don't want to cause any kind of blow up, etc... I'm just going to try back WAY off. I'm giving him what he needs in a friend, but I'm not getting heartache in return.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
