At the very least, you should be telling your W the good things you think about her. Don't lie or make things up. You should be telling her that she is hot, beautiful, sexy. You should be telling her she is amazing in her career and celebrate all of her little advances (even if SHE downplays them.) You should be telling her you love the way she smells. Or that you love talking to her about politics because she has such a brilliant perspective.
Not to a ridiculous point where she is rolling her eyes. But perhaps once a day, say something to her.
And say "I love you" EVERY DAY at least once.
Look into her eyes when you greet her and talk with her.
