As I know from my situation PM is great at giving advice, encouragement and telling it like it is. I read her response to you and it seems to hit the nail on the head.
Your efforts are truly brilliant in regard to your relationship with wee man. From reading your sitch and others I have come to realise my children are everything, and I wish when it mattered to my wife I spent more time with them, unfortunately I cannot turn back the clock.
Our children need our love, guidance and stability now and I look at your sitch for inspiration in trying to be a better father.
Good luck with your efforts to try and get that extra day for wee man, it shouldn't have to be like this and we all know there is no pain like it, but I am sure you will prevail in the end.
I am a lapsed catholic who is now starting to go back to church. I will light a candle for you and pray we all get to where we want to be.
Mark
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
