Setting Boundaries for MLC Alien H

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I experienced a lot of irresponsibility with my XH especially when our D was going on
I tried to set boundries and encourage him to Be ADULT
but mine is like a rebellious teen and he would sometimes honor a boundry once then break it
so
You can try to nicely set limits especially where kids are concerned
but
dont expect anything
he is not the same now
his committment to you and your family is now changed
I have spent many times talking or listening to my kids about their pain regarding dad
I try to explain that Dad is doing the best he can
he is in crises
hopefully he will figure it out
we pray for dad
\my kids 7 and 13
are gently letting go
they still love him but they too dont expect to much from him especially the 13 year old
it is sad but out of my hands
I pray my kids will be ok and I sense they will have stuff but will overcome
you try your best to take care of you
and just be there for kids
my R with both my kids is so much better thanm while H was here
house is peaceful..calm and filled with Better energy
remember there is hope here no matter waht happens you will be better than befoire and your kids will have that
peace