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You should be telling her that you aren't sure either.


I will when and if the opportunity presents itself again. The hardest thing for me at this point is patience.

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You DO NOT act mean. You DO NOT act rude. You DO NOT act punitive. You are ALWAYS NICE.


I have been nice pretty much through the whole sitch. She commented in fact that I was just amazing in how I responded to the sitch.

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You need to let her think that you NOW have other things (I still say you need to bring jealousy into the picture) going on that are starting to consume your thoughts. This is why you get off the phone first, end conversations first, let her contact you and


Funny you should mention this. She commented that she was talking to a "friend" from a school she went to the other night and how he needed a woman to talk to. It almost feels like she is DBing me at this point by trying to play the jealousy card. It may be a little more difficult for me but I will attempt this.

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The OM is STILL in the picture in one way or another.


I'm sure you're right, I just hope it's in her mind that he's in the pic and not physically at this point.


M-41
ex-W-40
Together--17 years
SS-20
D-14
Bomb--2 Feb 09
WAW--6 Feb 09
Officially divorced on 2 Jun 2010!!!
ex-W has a boyfriend 8 Jun 2010!!!
Off we go into the wild blue yonder!!!!