Mish, don't even go there. If he does, on an outside crazy chance, suggest reconciliation, tell him that he has to focus on one thing at a time, and right now, that is straightening himself out, becoming a whole person, without trying to have you do the work that only he can do himself. You never have to answer the question directly. And when/if he gets to a stronger place, he will be ok hearing the answer.
Meanwhile, sounds good that you have someone to mow the lawn!
Oh, and the way those people can afford the gold while getting services? Its nothing legal or moral, so please don't let yourself get angry at them - you would never sell yourself so low as that. Please contact some other agencies for ideas - there has to be something!
Ooh, I know that one of my friend's friends is doing gold parties on the side, and making some nice cash! Kind of like Mary Kay and Southern Living home parties...
