I can see from your response to me on Newcomers why the 'indifference' reference struck a cord with you. I hope I have not worried you as I would not have posted my response to you if that was the case.
You seem to be in a much better situation than me, as your wife has not filed and I would say all the time she doesn't then you have a great chance. In my sitch as you know I believe there is OM and this is why there is such a hurry to D.
Kev, the funny thing here is if you look at my sitch my wife is angry, but is bulldozing her way to divorcing me so she should be indifferent to me as by rights she should not care less.
Your wife has not filed for divorce but is showing indifference towards you. As has been said to me on many occasions nothing seems to make sense in WAW land and I have been guilty and still am of trying to analyse everything she does or says. It's because we care so darned much it hurts and we just want to shake them out of this fog. We just have to accept these rollercoaster emotions and try to focus on ourselves and our children.
I don't know why but it always seems to make sense when you are posting to others.
Best wishes Kev.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
