I had a really good night with Wee Man last night. He was in a top mood and we had a lot of fun. My W ended up dropping him off in the end because they'd been at her parents for dinner. There was no interaction really because she came past with a friend of hers. It was basically just drop off, bye, and leave. Still, I can't complain. At least she left the most important part with me.
To be honest Mark, I don't think my W is in any hurry to get a divorce. She's certainly never mentioned it since we separated. Aside from everything that's happened between us I still think she's a good mother and I know she can't be thinking that divorce is a good thing for Wee Man. Also, she has always been very close to her family and they would not be impressed if she filed for divorce right away. It was bad enough when she decided to leave me but I think they would be very unimpressed if she rushed in to divorce. No matter how much she fights against it sometimes, I believe she really does prefer to have them on her side. I'm fairly certain there's no OM yet but you never know.
MsM, I think the roller coaster in my sitch is more to do with my own emotions. My W doesn't seem to have any towards me at all to be honest. That's what worries me about her indifference. She doesn't get angry at me, upset, or laugh very much when we're together. We have no contact at all apart from when it's to do with Wee Man and even then it's usually very brief. It's the not knowing anything about how she's feeling that gets me down. I used to be able to read her fairly well I think but now she's completely closed to me. I know I don't want her hatred but a little bit of emotion would be nice every now and again.
PM, it's not the quantity but the quality which counts. Good luck!
Kev
Me: 32, Wife: 22 Son: 2 Married: 2 years Separated: January 5th 2009
Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.
